Over the last few posts we've reached the following conclusions.
Our slavery to the fear of death is largely implicated in the ways we construct our identity, the ways we pursue meaning and self-esteem. We do this by neurotically borrowing an identity from what the bible calls "the principalities and powers," our cultural worldviews, ideologies, and institutions. In biblical language we engage in idolatry, serving cultural images that are, at root, projections of our fears.
The principalities and powers, along with the self-images they create via idolatry, are aligned with sin and the satanic in that the idols have to be believed absolutely (i.e., appear to us as God or as godlike) if they are to function as anxiety buffers. This causes us to engage in worldview defense, denigrating and demonizing outgroup members who call our worldview into question.
What we see in all this is how we create a fear-based identity which makes us inherently defensive and prone to rivalry and violence. Driven by existential anxiety, identity and self-esteem are "enslaved to the fear of death" and, thus, produce sin and "the works of the devil." Here we have a psychological description that converges upon the biblical witness: "the sting of death is sin." More, we also now understand, at a deep psychological level, why "perfect love" must "cast out fear." The fear of death causes us to create an identity that makes us vulnerable to sin and the satanic. The biblical term for this vulnerability, a weakness rooted in mortality fears, is sarx, variously translated as "flesh" or "the sinful nature." Consequently, to step out of sin, death, and the satanic, to move toward love, we need to escape the "slavery of the fear of death" in how we form our self-concepts.
So how does the bible describe this process of salvation and liberation from sin, death, and the devil?
Perhaps paradoxically, though this series makes this obvious, both Jesus and Paul describe salvation as a sort of death. To be saved is to die and be raised again. Here is Jesus on this point:
Mark 8.34-36According to Jesus we must deny ourselves, take up our cross, and lose our life. We must die. Literally? Possibly, but in this text Jesus contrasts "the cross" with "gaining the whole world." And given our psychological analyses we get a sense of what Jesus is talking about. We can construct an identity in one of two ways. On the one hand, we can try to "gain the world." That is, we can pursue self-esteem via idolatry, by serving the principalities and powers. By contrast, we can take up the cross and die to this pursuit. In the language of Paul from the last post we can treat "gaining the whole world" as "rubbish."
Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?
Given Jesus's language--taking up our cross--we might say that Jesus is calling us to adopt a martyrological identity. An identity based upon dying to the world. In the language of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, "When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die."
Craig Hovey, in his book To Share in the Body: A Theology of Martyrdom for Today's Church, describes the martyrological identity this way:
Askesis (from which asceticism is derived) is a term that names the training or discipline of self-denial...In the same way, martyrdom names not an ethic but an effect or outcome of the askesis of one's whole life, one's needs, and the way of life that would meet them...The way of of Jesus requires the unseating of those modes of behavior, ways of life, desires, and thoughts that are conditioned on scales of self-preservation, self-protection, and security for one's life...The virtues necessary to be a martyr are no different from the virtues necessary to be a faithful Christian. This means that martyrdom is not a special calling for a select few but the commitment of every Christian and the responsibility of every church.A martyrological identity means "the unseating of those modes of behavior, ways of life, desires, and thoughts that are conditioned on the scales of self-preservation, self-protection, and security for one's life." We've discussed in this series a great deal what happens when our identities are based upon "self-preservation, self-protection, and security for one's life." Recall the words of Orthodox theologian John Romanides from earlier in this series:
Through the power of death and the devil, sin that reigns in men gives rise to fear and anxiety and to the general instinct of self-preservation or survival. Thus, Satan manipulates man's fear and his desire for self-satisfaction, raising up sin in him...Because of death, man must first attend to the necessities of life in order to stay alive. In this struggle, self-interests are unavoidable. Thus, man is unable to live in accordance with his original destiny of unselfish love. This state of subjection under the reign of death is the root of man's weakness in which he becomes entangled in sin at the urging of the demons and by his own consent.But as we've seen, this goes deeper than mere self-preservation. Few of us are scrapping for bits of food. As described in the last few posts, we noted how the quest for self-preservation takes a neurotic turn, how we build our self-esteem to convince ourselves that our lives are meaningful and durable in the face of death. It is true that our need for self-preservation can cause us to become violent in desperate survival situations. But our neurotic quest of self-preservation can also motivate violence and rivalry. And it's my argument in this series that the "slavery to the fear of death" is manifested here at this neurotic level.
The point is, a martyrological identity isn't about physical courage in the face of death. Rather, a martyrological identity involves existential courage in the resistance of idolatry, dying to efforts to win self-esteem by "gaining the world."
But note that there is a relationship between the martyr's existential and physical courage. The latter produces the former. The reason Jesus could go to the cross non-violently was because he wasn't existentially anxious. Had he been Jesus would have resisted death and become violent. It's Jesus's existential courage, his relaxedness in the face of Pilate, that allowed him to remain non-violent, allowed him to love.
When we turn from Jesus to Paul we find a similar analysis. The clearest treatment of this subject in Paul comes from Romans 6:
Romans 6.1-16Paul's argument parallels Jesus's call to discipleship. Christians, because they have been baptized, are dead to sin as Christ is dead to sin. We have been "buried with Christ" and "baptized into his death." This means that our "old self was crucified with Christ." And this crucifixion sets us "free from sin."
What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.
For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his. For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin—because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.
Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God.
In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus. Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness. For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.
What then? Shall we sin because we are not under the law but under grace? By no means! Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one you obey—whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?
What might this mean? It's clear in this passage that Paul is talking about an ongoing process and struggle. Paul is asking his readers to live up and into to their baptism. In light of their imitation of Jesus's death Paul asks his readers to "count themselves dead to sin." How exactly? Paul is clear on this point: "Do no offer any part of yourself to wickedness." By refusing wickedness we act before God as those "who have been brought from death to life." Paul concludes by bringing in another metaphor: slavery. To be dead to sin is to refuse to be a slave to sin. Paul asks the question of his readers: Are you going to be a slave to sin or a slave to righteousness? This echos Jesus's call: "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me." We have some choices to make.
I like Craig Hovey's take on this. He notes in To Share in the Body that Christian baptism is "a kind of drowning" that connects us with the death of Jesus.: "The surging waters of the baptismal do not only cleanse, they kill; they do not only wash the body, the destroy it."
But what, exactly, is destroyed and killed? Hovey goes on to describe it as a change of allegiances:
In baptism, a human individual is transferred from the world to the church. The world registers a loss in loyalty; the church registers an advance in loyalty...Because of this shift, baptism marks a definite realignment of power...If the church grows through the initiation of one member at a time, it seemingly shrinks through an equivalent but opposite process. The world attempts to regain its lost members, to secure its former loyalties, and to establish its earlier power. In this way, baptism is an overtly political act. Like the burning of draft cards, baptism declares a switched identity, a refusal to be one thing and a determination to be something else...Transferring citizenship from one kingdom to another is the action performed in baptism, but it also signals entrance into a temptation to trade new citizenship back for the old, to render back to the worldly powers the souls of God's people, the church.All this fits with the analyses of the last few posts. In baptism we declare ourselves as "dead to the world," counting it all "rubbish" and "loss." We begin the daily struggle to kill off our previous loyalties, the ways we idolatrously pursued self-esteem and meaning. We die to the sinful identity, the "old self" that was enslaved to sin because of the way sarx is pushed and pulled by mortality fears (overtly and neurotically). We do this by no longer pursuing an identity based on ersatz meaning that papers over our neurotic anxieties in the face of death.
That is what the cross represents. We are dead to the world. The allures of the world, which use fear-through-self-esteem to tempt us, hold no attraction for us. That, at least, is the goal. Practically, it means daily taking up your cross as a follower of Jesus and counting the world as loss.
On the other side of this death is the experience of resurrection. As Jesus says, if we lose our life we'll find it. As Paul says, we are alive to God in Christ Jesus. Resurrection, in this instance, is about being set free from the slavery to the fear of death and the life that becomes available to us as a consequence. This is the emancipation and liberation of Christus Victor. As I've argued it, an emancipation that is largely psychological in nature and function. Resurrection is experienced in an identity no longer affected by death. Here is how William Stringfellow describes it:
Resurrection...refers to the transcendence of the power of death and the fear or thrall of the power of death, here and now, in this life, in this world. Resurrection, thus, has to do with life and, indeed, the fulfillment of life before death.And finally, we come to see in all this why love is the sign of the resurrected life. Fear, we've come to see, is the enemy of love. Fear causes us to construct an idolatrous identity that makes us rivalrous toward ingroup members and violent toward outgroup member. Thus, for love to emerge we have to be set free from the fear of death. So it stands to reason that "perfect love casts out fear." Finally it all becomes very clear, the relationship between resurrection and love....[Christ's] power over death is effective not just at the terminal point of a person's life but throughout one's life, during this life in this world, right now. This power is effective in the times and places in the daily lives of human beings when they are so gravely and relentlessly assailed by the claims of principalities for an idolatry that, in spite of all disguises, really surrenders to death as the reigning presence in the life of the world. His resurrection means the possibility of living in this life, in the very midst of death's works, safe and free from death.
No one said it better than John:
1 John 3.14
We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death.




Thank you, Richard. I'm going to go through The Authenticity of Faith with my h.s. senior son, because it models how to go into a pluralistic setting (public university) with a healthy grasp on faith. With that as background, we will finish with this post, because it ties the concepts together so well with the central symbols of our faith. I don't know how better to express my sincerity in saying thanks.
It is easy for someone who is not facing a real, immediate threat of death to say that, through our spiritual re-birth, we should accept death.
Death of the ego is one thing. I'm all for that.
But, are those who look out on the world from a position of strength (economic, social, spiritual) to so transcend the suffering and death of others that we say, "Que sera, sera," and feel pious in ignoring (or glorifying) the suffering and death of others? I have seen and heard just such a POV in the doctrine of "sovereign grace" touted by neo-Reformed types. I don't think this is what you meant, Dr. Beck, but I am just imagining how certain rival ingroups will have a field day in twisting and bending the point of martyrological identity to fit their agenda. It's some crazy you-know-what, but many people believe it lock, stock, and barrel. It's the kind of thing that would make a person disavow Christianity for fear of guilt-by-association!
I agree. This can get twisted. The key is to always keep in view how the "losing of life" is connected to resurrected life of love.
And it's important to note that Christian martyrs don't kill themselves or others. They are, rather, killed by the powers because their love is intolerable to the status quo. Jesus is the paradigm here.
Thanks Tracy. In many ways, this series is a theological squeal to The Authenticity of Faith.
Hi Susan,
In my youth I attended every summer a Bible Conference in Upstate NY
(now defunct). All of the concepts in this series here were taught a
great length back then and there. Their term for "sarx" was "old man",
whom we were to "put to death". The cure for sin was to "put on the
whole armor of God", each piece of which had its own complete study
guide, and daily "take up your cross". We were to "crucify the flesh".
This was done each morning (with great mental effort) during your
"Quiet Time". Everywhere on display was the certitude and piety you allude to.
In this regard this series has been a trip down memory lane for me. And
while I have never been aware of anyone during the intervening years
discussing these very same concepts, it seems this must be the result of
reading the Bible literally. Unfortunately for me, I have never been
able to make any sense out of this material.
I do not believe it is possible to put into daily practice these ideas,
specifically and because they are so foreign to the human condition and
experience. I have come to understand that it is not possible to escape
"sin" in this life. And I have met people who love unconditionally who
do not follow any of these principles or practices. I have been
married to one of them for the past 33 years.
With whatever time I have left here, my goal is to learn as much about this kind of love as I can. Up to now, nothing else has worked.
Thanks, Sam. Sometimes we need a person to embody Love, so that our faith in God is renewed and strengthened. We can't see God (Spirit). Words fail, and become mere abstractions. Simple kindnesses, loyalty, and faithfulness are often so profoundly revealing of Love Incarnate. If this is not the case, then why Jesus and the particular flow of events in his life and death, and maybe most importantly, his resurrection?
Thanks, Dr. Beck. I am just beginning to ponder the implications of Christus Victor vs. Penal Substitutionary Atonement. So what if God did not preordain Jesus' violent death as the necessary atonement for our sins, but simply did not interfere in the actions of those people who were controlled by evil powers and principalities who desired to kill the fullest embodiment of Love that they had ever seen, which threatened them? God's great act was not so much in the violent death of Jesus, but in the resurrection, as a sign of hope that Love cannot be killed, that God cannot be deterred in his mission to rescue humanity (from our slavery to the fear of death)? Jesus' last words on the cross are some of the most significant, imho. One of which was, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." I can hardly imagine that level of forgiveness, but I'm sure glad that Jesus as "God with us" shows that He is able to pull it off. I need a lot of forgiveness! If I were Peter, I wouldn't have stopped at hacking an ear off. I would have probably sliced and diced the whole guard to pieces! Argh
That is the question, Susan.
As you and others here have pointed out before, this community helps form some connection that many may have in the past lost. I am one of these. That Jesus lived and died is undeniable, based on the evidence (continuing history itself). That he can be "known" by me is where the entire enterprise breaks down. This is why I listen for his voice in your words, because I know of no other way to "relate". I have never met you in person, but I am indisputably interacting with you as we exchange ideas in real time. I have yet to learn how to do this with a Spirit.
Placing the emphasis on the resurrection, I think, is the key move. Or at least equal emphases on the Incarnation, Crucifixion and the Resurrection. This is what the Eastern Orthodox do very, very well.
Richard, I think this is a terrific synopsis of a rather complex idea. I would like to include Susan's and Sam's in my thinking here.
It would be easy to turn these ideas into religious practice which is another way of saying that these descriptions of a real life dynamic can be turned into a formula, or algorithm; the dynamic of struggling into the fullness of being human is transformed into following another recipe. Being alive is reduced to rote operations.
I think we have to keep in mind that this dynamic doesn't originate in the biblical text, it originates in the situation of being human.To say otherwise would be like saying brains originate in a biology text book.
I also think we have sin wrong when we connect it with immorality and evil, rather than with the struggle inherent to human becoming. We are the only species for whom becoming fully fledged is NOT automatic; our becoming is engaged at another level of reality beyond biology. At the same time, we as human being embody the most amazing, and the most agonizing, experience to be had in our universe. We lack appreciation for the difficulty present in being human. No wonder our beginning thinkers of human life framed it in terms of a fall. How could they otherwise?
Knowing what we now know about Reality's evolutionary nature, can we honestly continue our thinking within a framework of Fall based theology?
What would happen if we switched our beginning frame work from the notion of "fallen" to the one of "becoming"?
For one, we'd be thinking within a framework truer to reality as god created it, and more coherent to our experience of living the human life.wouldn't we? What if sin was more an existential idea than a moral one?
My take, and I think you'd agree, is that my ideas in this series fit comfortably with what you are proposing. If we neurotically construct our identities as a response to fear and a need for self-preservation we are, at root, still animals. Complex and symbolic, but still animals. Fear-driven survival machines. Thus, to step out of this fear, to construct an identity not based on fear but love, is to move away from the animal toward the truly human. In this, Christians would say that Jesus was the first to be truly human and, via his life/cross, showing us a path toward a new humanity.
I like your "fear driven survival machines". And as far as seeing Jesus in this way, Tillich points out that this where Jesus can be seen as god's ultimate revelation.in that not only is Jesus the first word about being human, he's the final word as well; he becomes for us a "hermeneutic" through which to interpret our making of human life together.
This brings me to a question for you Richard; we're talking together here about human reality, but I can't say that science brought me to see it this way. I don't even know that we could say that Becker developed his ideas through science alone. I think the ideas we're working with illuminate something very real, but I don't know that these ideas could be scientifically derived.
In this situation, we're relying on something more like personal witness than proof to validate these views of reality. How do we make sense of this?
Your ideas excite me, Mike. I have been studying science for many years, and
from my perspective, science is also all about "personal witness". We now
understand that to observe is to create Reality, and thereby to alter/change/become.
There is no such thing anymore as "proof". Everything is relative. Perspective
is key, and creates all of our reality even as it alters it.
I believe this is why we were created -- to witness and observe, and in the process *notice this change*. This is what it means to "become". But just as a baby's brain becomes less elastic over time, as a means of focusing on the relevant, so routine life can dull the senses. Both faith and science should allow us, first and foremost, to remain alert to and take notice of that change.
Still loving this series, Richard. For me, one of the challenges has been to think clearly about the pursuit of self-esteem and meaning through this process of existential death. As Mike points out with such erudition, what Becker does well is to reframe sin as a function of human existence. He thus undermines the moral highground of the 'judgementalism and purity' brigade. Sin is just people doing their best to deal with the terrifying facts of life and certain death. Christ resolves our dilemma in his resurrection, but "God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him."
What Becker does not do so well, in my opinion, is to define what he means - and does not mean - by self-esteem. What he actually means is the practice of comparison and the fear-based acquisition and violence that follow. But self-esteem based on belonging, friendship, participating, valuing one's own distinctive contribution to a community of equally-valuable individuals, I would argue, is not 'sinful', even in this existential sense. But it can still make you feel good about being you - and that's OK, I think.
Just as Becker recognises that the pursuit of meaning is valid, but simply misplaced in most of us - diverted from the course of 'cosmic heroism' into the stagnating eddies of control, wealth and virility - so the end of self-esteem does not justify the means of acquisition and violence; but neither does it rule out a Christ-like self-esteem, based on a maturing knowledge of ourselves, of God and of others.
Hi Sam. I, too, believe that many of us here have connected with one another in very real ways. What a blessing. One thing, though... I worry that one of these days I will say something really stupid which does not sound like Jesus. Maybe, if you are willing, we can make a pact to keep on believing the best of one another, and above all, to go on believing the best about Jesus?
On any given day, I know that I'm a pale imitation of the One I know and worship. Because I care about you in friendship, I would not want to hurt or discourage you in any way. I care about you because you have allowed me to know you in sharing your vulnerabilities and doubts. The real sorrow in life, I think, is that the love we have to offer is always flawed to some extent (some of us more flawed than others). The trust that we place in God, through the witness of the Incarnate and Risen Christ, is that He is working with our messy, imperfect love to bring healing, hope, and redemption. I pray that keeps happening here, in spite of me! You are a blessing to me, Sam. ~Peace~
It seems that each successive generation, more and more children are in "fear driven survival" mode. Who then grow up, and repeat the cycle. I was recently introduced to the term "spiritual bypassing," coined by John Welwood to describe the tendency "use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks." Sandy Hotchkiss, whom I'm reading now, describes how self-esteem is hard won by those who do not come from healthy families, where it should have been groomed in an environment of love,grace, and acceptance balanced with healthy limits..
Thank-you for these well-expressed thoughts, Patricia. That's exactly where I'm coming from. If we were to jetisson, rather than refine our idea of self-esteem, I'd need something better - and something pragmatic and accessible - to offer the children I work with. Indeed, it is the failure to inculcate healthy self-regard, as you describe, that leads so many to make up for these unmet needs in other ways in later life. I, too, am struck by the idea of "spiritual bypassing" - which puts a name to something I've long been aware of in the church, in some of my friends, and in my own spiritual history.
I don't think science can prove much of anything. We can only gather data that is consistent with a theory. And I think such an empirical case could be made for all this. A good chunk of Ernest Becker's work has already been tested in the laboratory. I think the key empirical observation would be this: Do the most altruistic among us (e.g., Gandhi, Mother Teresa) form their identity in this manner? For example, do they show a radical disinterest in how the wider culture strives after self-esteem and existential comfort? Do they eschew self-preservation for love?
I think there is evidence for all this.
I think that's right. We need something to define "the good" in life, to give our stories a telos, a direction, an end. And, obviously, with "the good" in place we'll want to relate well to it (i.e., experience self-esteem). So the key, as you point out, is making sure that "the good" is large and expansive enough so that it includes everyone and doesn't set me against my neighbor.
"Resurrection...refers to the transcendence of the power of death and
the fear or thrall of the power of death, here and now, in this life,
in this world."
Well, yes... and... to me it doesn't make sense that living like this in the world now is divorced from the hope of the world in its totality someday being finally "put to rights", as N.T. Wright describes it. It is because Jesus' victory over death has been begun in his own resurrection -with a physical body- and will be brought to fulfillment in ours -with physical bodies.
"His resurrection means the possibility of living in this life, in the very midst of death's works, safe and free from death."
Exactly, and precisely because of Jesus' bodily resurrection as the beginning of New Creation.
I'm not talking about a dualistic disembodied "far-off Heaven" to be attained only after death, or a naive ignorance of real evil. If Jesus bodily resurrection in fulfillment of the deepest expectations of C1 Jews, but in a way they didn't expect, did not take place in history, then we are truly the most to be pitied, and Stringfellow's words are beautiful but empty, because death has really not been overthrown....
Dana
Jim, you are a light in dark places. I hope you save your comments, and put them together in a file. I bet others would agree - you've got a book in you, one that needs to be written. One that could help a lot of churchianity's casualties find both affirmation of their experiences, and the freedom from religion that Christ made available, and lived out Himself.
"They just haven't learned yet to ignore all the loud voices of exclusivism inherent in the "church," and replace those with trusting their own hearts. " Church certainly teaches you to distrust your own perceptions, because "your own heart is so wicked." YET you're 'supposed' to trust the pastor's or other authority figures.
Mike, the Eastern Church has a different view. The first humans were "innocent" but not perfect, nor were they by nature immortal; they needed to "grow into" their humanity by continuing to trust God in a relationship of love, depending on God, rather than themselves, for existence in the present and future. When they turned from that trust, love and sustenance that is without limit in God, they turned to their own limited and mortal energies, which in themselves cannot sustain life, and thus began the plunge toward non-existence. The problem was not about transgressing some arbitrary rule, but trying to exist outside of the relationship of trust and love, which engender life.
The view is, the first humans had the choice to remain in that relationship of trust and love. The truly awesome thing is that God, knowing in advance that humans would not continue to choose that relationship, created them anyway, and chose to become united with them. The Incarnation was not "plan B"; it was the beginning of the goal of the union of the Uncreated with the Created. Through the Incarnation, God also solved the problem of death by submitting to it as the GodMan. God knew that the only way to conquer death was to go through it and out the other side, bringing forth life from death.
It's all there in the writings of the brilliant theologians of the fourth century (who unfortunately have been ignored in favor of Augustinian thought). No need to re-invent the wheel :)
Dana
Jim and Patricia, last week I was thinking about how to sum up what I want for my children in their faith journeys. I would like to spare them some of the lessons learned the hard way, and spiritual setbacks/harm that toxic Christianity can potentially deliver... In a nutshell, I envisioned a future for my children of faithful obedience to Christ that is purely and freely given in love, not out of fear, and never to confuse the two. You are both very wise and kind. Do you ever get the sense that so many who profess Christian faith in a God of love don't really believe their own message? Or don't believe it enough, I guess. Then there are those who *really* believe in their message of a punitive justice god. My daily meditations from Richard Rohr lately have been centered around the theme that "my image of God creates me." That really made me think about faith from a different angle...
"Your wife loves unconditionally because that is what comes naturally
when we see ourselves as God sees us -- of infinite value despite our
flaws. I can only imagine that she had that love demonstrated to her at
sometime in her life (as Susan so well refers), and recognizing it as
the only way to true peace and happiness appropriated that mindset for
herself."
Sitting here right now next to me, I discussed this with her. She had the worst childhood of anyone I have ever met. So I asked her -- "Who in all your life loved you unconditionally?" She answered immediately -- "You".
I am blown away. I honestly had no idea. It seems it is the proof of your pudding. I agree with Patricia. You should write a book.
Yes, we can make such a pact. I would like to be known as more than the sum total of all my doubts, and I cannot imagine that you would say anything to upset or hurt me. Peace to you as well.
Patricia, thank you for your kind and generous words. I am humbled by them. Apparently you haven't spoken to my wife yet and found out what I'm really like. ;)
While my longest comments usually come when I just can't contain myself, I do worry that I am always writing about what I see as the negatives of "church," and that others will think that I am only bitter and cynical because of that. I want nothing other than to dispel what I see as the myth of God's displeasure with us, and replace it with the understanding that He loves everyone of us and has nothing but our eternal happiness in mind.Because I have experienced them myself, and seen the effects of "churchianity" in many others, my driving force is the exposing, and eventual elimination, of those aspects of the "traditions of men" which have hurt so many, and which paint such a horrific picture of our Father. I think there is a book in all of us, and I imagine that I will have to write mine someday just to keep from exploding. Whether anyone will want to read it is another story.You are so right about the hypocrisy of the church's teachings on trust - that we are to trust our pastor but not our own hearts.... whoa, don't get me started. Thanks again for your loving affirmations -- your words here, and in all of your comments on this blog, have always touched me deeply.
To Susan, who I cannot respond to below:
"Do you ever get the sense that so many who profess Christian faith in a God of love don't really believe their own message? Or don't believe it enough, I guess."
Absolutely, without question. And concerning your meditations that "my image of God creates me," I wholeheartedly agree. That notion gets back to Richard's observation that what this whole "conversation" is about is "What is God like?" .... and following directly behind that is "in Whose image do we want to "make" ourselves?"
To Patricia, Susan, and anyone else reading this: I do not want to hijack Richard's wonderful blog with my long-winded comments, so if any of you would like to converse directly with me by email please feel free to write - orangetaffy(at)sbcglobal.net. I would be honored to share my heart with you, and to hear your own stories.
Peace to you all.
Well it seems that you both have modeled Christ for the other. How beautiful. And whether Christ actually is the son of God, or whether you believe it or not, doesn't really make a difference. Emulating his character is enough. While your wife may not have learned unconditional love by example as a child, she certainly learned the alternative to it... and soundly rejected it.
My youngest daughter (19), who would never claim to be a "Christian" - a member of the Christian religion - has told me that she sees all the religious bickering and complexities of competing theologies as so ridiculous. "It's all so simple," she says. "The golden rule - to love everyone - covers it all."
What else can I add?
I greatly enjoy this series. Thanks, Richard for the tightly synthesized synopsis regarding the slavery of death. I think this series deserves its own book!
Dr. Beck, I have saved this post for use with my kids. No pressure.
As I read this I was struck immediately by the irony that baptism, even as the ultimate act against the principalities, has in many ways been commandeered by the principalities. I have struggled to keep a meaningful perspective, not just on my own baptism, but on that of others--or the lack thereof. Most of that is due to the powers trying to convince me of my baptism's superiority to others', or fighting against the powers trying to convince me mine was somehow inferior. All the while driving a wedge between me and someone else.
As I reflect on my own baptism in relation to my current doubts/faithlessness, it still seems to be an anchor keeping me from denouncing Jesus wholly and becoming fully atheist. Simply, because of my baptism, I just can't go there. Perhaps it is finally bearing the fruit (in albeit a strange way) of love finally being the only way.
My mind is scrambled... I hope this make sense.
--Justin
1) The fear of death created and perpetuates Christianity in the first place.
2) Which God are you referring to ? The one in the Old Testament commits genocide, punished others after hardening their hearts, and demanded animal sacrifice. No wander some still fear him.
3) Martyrdom and sacrifice are values man created. It keeps the flock dependent upon its leaders and ensures a steady tithe.
4) Seems odd an all powerful God would write in such a vague manner , requiring contrasting interpretations and intellectualizing.
5) Why doesn't God heal amputees ?
Sorry , I got sidetracked. My point is that the billions of non Christians who have lived a life of rationality , generosity, and kindness do not share in your fears. I do enjoy your blog and appreciate your intellect.
Thanks, Sam. It isn't so much your doubts that sum you up, but your honest and humble sharing that reaches out to me in friendship. I take courage from your strength to love anyway, in the face of the unanswered questions and ambiguity. That's the grand paradox of life, and you must know the answer to the riddle already and have been living into the truth of it all along. The unconditional love that your wife has known through you: Beautiful. That just makes my heart happy to think of it...
Sam, Susan, Andrew, Dana and Patricia- I'm enjoying your interaction which incites my own thinking in such good ways. Here's a note about some of that thinking.
Dana notes that due to the Eastern view, there's a wheel that doesn't need reinvention. As I thought through this metaphor I realized that I'm thinking about things at a level prior to wheels, I'm thinking about our very fire.
I notice that in our current christian culture, we ballast the concept of obedience with pure gold while during the same time, when it comes to the concept of creativity, we give it the weight of wall stencils. This feels very upside down to me. Creativity may be the greatest power in the universe (nuclear explosions can't create for instance) and when it comes to human life, our capacity of this power is second only to god's.
What is this fire we embody? Our tendency typically follows one of two pathways: the path of piety and the path of consuming. Piety's focus keeps our flame timid; it punches air holes into the baskets Jesus spoke of. Consuming mistakes blazing fire for the heat of life. The living fire that truly creates gets trimmed through love and is able to participate fully with the one from whom creation gets its expression.
God expresses us into existence. In return, how do we express god into existence? Some might think god is listening for echos. I think god awaits our original compositions. This business of Origination though, is our gift and our plight. How do we followers of Christ then, create 'place' in this world where this human work of original composition can happen within a deeply felt sense of grace, and as well, transforms our greatest difficulty--that of becoming fully human-- from a plight into a gift?
Here's my attachment to god and the spark behind my theological thinking. All your thoughts helped me put my own into this order. Thanks, Mike
I agree, creativity is a gift and a responsibility from God, and seen from the first in letting Adam name the animals. Creativity gets hijacked, though, especially by that fear-driven mode, whether it's fear of the powers or fear of failure, or just the cold, bracing realities that hit us. I started writing two different stories/novels a few years ago, and then life threw a curveball and all my heart for it just dried up. Maybe someday I'll be able to go back to it.
Susan, since I can't answer at your post under it, I'll respond here. I've also tried to protect my kids. In fact, when my husband and I got married, I told him I didn't want to have kids, because I was too afraid that I would recreate my own childhood in them, and that was a distressing thought I just couldn't bear. He was very patient, and 5 years into our marriage, he let me decide that maybe we could do things differentlly, and we ventured into the parent hood. Having undergone a theological transformation in the process of raising them, I've tried to focus more on helping them become young men who truly live, and live true. They may still resonate with PSA, since that was the churchianity of their youth. But I'm less worried about their dogmatic correctness for their salvation than whether they use their hearts, minds, souls, and strength to love God and others, because these were Jesus' priority commands. I also know them to be the kind of young men who can acknowledge their wrongs and apologize, and doing so doesn't devastate them. They accept forgiveness, and they give it.
Piety tends to make people humble-out-loud (ie."O Lord forgive me of ALL MY {nonspecific} SINS" with a boo-hoo-hoo) without being really honest about it (ie."Geez, I'm sorry I called you a ____, or listened to people who did. Will you forgive me?"). I tend to think that those who profess God as love without being very loving truly believe that THEY are loved (ever hear this one? -- "I'm God's favorite."), but it doesn't necessarily translates into living out a love that gives a damn about whoever might be right under their nose. And that's telling, I think.
Brilliant, brilliant post Richard. So true on so many levels.
Patricia, you might be making a point I care about. You linked creativity to your writing a novel. Quite literally though, the way you raised your kids has been precisely creative. But what is creativity? We could simply say that a sign of creativity is that there's more after the making process than before it. More of what though? More cells? More organisms? More luxuries? What's the more that can be stored in heaven- and how does that differ from the more that rusts away?
And when your kids treat people in the ways you're teaching them, are they merely being polite, or are they creating places where others feel themselves as something more?
Writing a novel is an example of an ice berg tip when it comes to creativity in god's creation.....
Hello Patricia, Mike
Sorry I'm late again - I always enjoy your exchanges.
With everything that's going on, hugging my grandchildren, hanging out with a very close friend, hanging out with folks like you, and writing music seem to be the only hints of heaven in this XXXX ... thing we call life (I'm trying to behave and not use bad language).
Thanks Mike and Patricia for placing creativity in a very high light - something that is ignored, lost, even
condemned by the "Christian comminity".
Gary Y.
This is a very powerful analysis.
As Andrew said above, "it is the failure to inculcate healthy self-regard ... that leads so many (children) to make up for these unmet needs in other ways in later life." A lot of kids get born with a job, to make their parents feel better about themselves. This cycle of using children, who have no power over their own circumstances, who then grow up to use their children in the same way, can only be stopped where that history is faced, acknowledged, and by awareness, a stop to it made on purpose. A different path is taken. Which is exactly what the Gospel says has to happen: through repentance, and love for "the least of these." To me, this is where I see the death of sarx applying in a way that goes generational. And where sarx continues, "the sins of fathers" in fact visit the children, generation after generation.
I can tell you something kinda cool that one of the teachers, who has taught both of them, said about my boys. He said: "If all my students were like your sons, my job would be so easy." I know my sons are at a better place in who they are than I was at their ages. And I can only pray that that will continue throughout their lives.
Hi Richard,
Long time (though sporadic) reader, first time commenter: I really appreciate the work you are doing on this site with mimetic anthropology and Christus Victor. In this particular post, I completely agree at the big-picture level.
But I do have one question: where does the virtue of prudence come into this analysis? Is it still a virtue at all? I think it must be, because if I lack the virtue of prudence (for example, I don't save for my retirement because I give money to the poor instead of saving), then I become a burden on others.
Does it sit in the difference between neurotic and healthy self-preservation? If so, how does one recognize the difference?
(I confess I haven't been keeping up with the series, so if you've already covered this, please just direct me to the right place!)
Hi Victoria,
My next post in this series is going to touch on this a bit.
Wonderful - I'll stay tuned! Thanks.
Thank you. I needed this today. And perhaps a prayer or two. It's so easy to get in the tail spin of fear. It's my greatest idol that fuels so much of my behavior. Good post.