Let me describe what I'll call liturgies of polarization.
Imagine there is a contentious issue X out there. It can be a religious
issue, a moral issue, a political issue. And when this issue gets
raised people immediately fall into two polarized debating teams, Team A and
Team B.
The
liturgy of polarization starts when one team member floats a clear and
strong defense of their view, often with criticism about the other
team. At that point, with the gauntlet thrown, everyone chooses up sides
on social media and argues their team's position. Sometimes this
is done with snark and mean-spiritedness and sometimes with reason and
respect. Regardless, the choosing up sides and dueling is the inexorable
and inevitable outcome.
Which is why I'm calling all
this a liturgy. A ritualistic repetition about what we value most
deeply, a ritual that cognitively, emotionally and behaviorally
reinforces and deepens those values.
This is why I'm
always ambivalent about kicking off one of these liturgies.
Because if I really do think one side of a debate is wrong then
articulating the opposite won't change minds. It will only kick off the
liturgy of choosing sides and defending them which will, ultimately,
ritualistically reinforce and deepen the views in question. Which is exactly what I don't want to do. Instead initiating a conversation or a debate what I'm actually doing is everyone to worship. And by the time
the worship service is over--once everyone has finished all their
commenting, tweeting and posting--we've accomplishing what worship accomplishes--a
deeper love for the position we were defending.
Which
makes me wonder if this is one of the reasons why social media is making us more and more polarized. I wonder if
these liturgies of polarization aren't pulling us further and further away
from each other, each round of outrage creating deeper and deeper
emotional divides.
--an unpublished post speculating about how social media debates are forming and shaping us
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