
I'm still reflecting on the interface of emotion and theology.
Ever since the Greeks, most of the Western philosophical and psychological moral/ethical traditions have tended to focus on moral reasoning. This cognitivist approach is manifested in most ethics classes. In this tradition, emphasis is placed on excellence in dissecting moral conundrums: Hans' wife is dying and she needs a very expensive medicine. However, the local pharmacist, a man who loves money, will not give the medicine to Hans. Hans, in his desperation, steals the medicine. Did Hans do the "right" thing?
But the Greeks focused not on moral reasoning but upon character and "virtue." And recently, psychologists are mining that wisdom in their research.
What is virtue? What does it mean to be a good person? More and more evidence is now suggesting this: Virtue is emotions.
More specifically, virtue is the product of what psychologists are now calling the "moral emotions." The moral emotions are:
1. Empathy: The ability to vicariously feel the pain of a friend or stranger.
2. Gratitude: The ability to feel that one is in receipt of a "gift" or "blessing."
3. Remorse: Heartache over hurting a person.
4. Moral Indignation: Anger in the face of cruelty and injustice.
These, then, are character and virtue. If you have these, you're a good person. If you don't have them you are evil. And I’m serious about that. The diagnostic feature of psychopaths, the face of pure evil in the world today (more technically diagnosed as "Antisocial Personality Disorder"), is a complete absence of the moral emotions: No empathy, no gratitude, no remorse, no indignation.
Thus, what psychologists are teaching us about virtue is this: Goodness is in the emotions. Do you want your kids to be good? Tune their moral emotions. Do you want to be good? Tune your own moral emotions.
How can we do this? Well, there are lots of ways. Here is a recent example from my life...
Last spring I took some students to Memphis for a conference. Late one afternoon a student and I wandered over to the National Civil Rights Museum. What an amazing experience. It is housed on the spot where Martin Luther King Jr. was shot. In fact, the tour ends on that fateful balcony. At one point in the exhibit you get to sit on a Montgomery bus next to Rosa Parks while the bus driver (this is all simulated) screams at you to move to the back. ![]()
Needless to say, I was emotionally changed. Right now, as I write, I'm looking at the poster I bought at the end of that day. It is a picture of the Voting Rights March from Selma to Montgomery in 1965. I look at that poster every day.
Why do I tell you this? Because to be a good person I must attend to my moral emotions. And the Civil Rights Museum was good therapy. It tuned both my empathy and my moral indignation. I haven't been the same since.
So, if you are reading this, what kinds of "moral emotion therapy" have you found effective in your own life? What experiences? What movies? What books?
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The Theology of Calvin and Hobbes
The Theology of Peanuts
The Angel of the iPhone
Reflections on Gender and the Church
- Call No Man on Earth Father
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- A Letter to My Church on Women's Roles
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- Thoughts on Mark Driscoll While I'm Knitting
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The Snake Handling Churches of Appalachia
How Facebook Killed the Church
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- Here I Am
- Becoming the Jubilee
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- Going Outside the Camp
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- The Song of Lamech and the Song of the Lamb
- The Nephilim
- Shaming Jesus
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- The Exclusion and Inclusion of Eunuchs
- The Second Moses
- The New Manna
- Salvation in the First Sermons of the Church
- "A Bloody Husband"
- Song of the Vineyard
- The Jubilee
Bonhoeffer's Letters from Prision
Civil Rights Family Trip
Hip Christianity
Demons and The Powers
- Part 1: Thinking about Demons
- Part 2: Evil and Illness in Modernity
- Part 3: Evil as Residual
- Part 4: The Language of The Powers
- Part 5: The Angels of the Nations
- Part 6: Yoder on The Powers
- Part 7: The Spirituality of The Powers
- Part 8: The Inner Aspect of Material Power
- Part 9: Stringfellow on The Powers
- Part 10: Demons in the Gosples
Judas
The Midrash of R. Crumb
Theology and Evolutionary Psychology
- Prelude: Galileo's Dilemma
- Part 1: Natural and Sexual Selection
- Part 2: On the Sweet Tooth (and Morality as Dieting)
- Interlude: Emoticons
- Part 3: Evolution and Human Sexuality
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- Allowing God to Rage
- Poetry of a Murderer
- On Christian Communion: Killing vs. Sexuality
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- Atonement: A Primer
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- Christ and Horrors
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- The Deliverance of God
- To Change the World
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- I Told Me So
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- Evolving in Monkey Town
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- Evil in Modern Thought, Part 1
- Evil in Modern Thought, Part 2
- Evil in Modern Thought, Part 3
- The Black Swan, Part 1
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- Rapture Ready!
- A Secular Age
- The God Who Risks
- I Am a Strange Loop, Part 1
- I Am a Strange Loop, Part 2
- I Am a Strange Loop, Part 3
- I Am a Strange Loop, Part 4
- I Am a Strange Loop, Part 5
- The Evolution of Cooperation
- Evil
- On Apology
Moral Psychology
- Ethnocentrism and Politics
- Flies, Attention and Morality
- The Banality of Evil
- Regarding Sex
- The Ovens at Buchenwald
- Violence and Traffic Lights
- Defending Individualism
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- The Wicked
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- Primum non nocere
- The Moral Emotions
- The Moral Circle, Part 1
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- Taboo Psychology
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- Infrahumanization
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Experiments in Quantitative Ecclesiology
The Theology of Everyday Life
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- Can you sin on a deserted island?
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Dogmatism & Doubt: Curing the Religious Disease
Sticky Theology (Why is Bad Theology so Popular?)
Universal Reconciliation
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- A Googolplexian Hell
- The Best Ending to the Christian Story: An Exchange with Daniel Kirk
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George MacDonald
Alone, Suburban & Sorted
The Theology of Monsters
Original Sin: A New View
The Theology of Ugly
Orthodox Iconography
A Walk with William James
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- Part 4: Pragmatism and the Emerging Church
- Part 5: Theology is a Fork
- Part 6: Ontological Emotion
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- Part 8: Introverts at Church
- Part 9: Bubbles in the Sun
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Preparing for the Cartesian Storm (Free Will & Souls in the Age of Neuroscience)
Musings On Faith, Belief, and Doubt
- Cheap Praise and Costly Praise
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- Wired to Suffer
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- Orthodox Alexithymia
- High and Low: The Psalms and Suffering
- The Buddhist Phase
- Skilled Christianity
- The Two Families of God
- The Bait and Switch of Contemporary Christianity
- Evil and Evolution: Thoughts on Enns and Smith
- Theodicy and No Country for Old Men
- Doubt: A Diagnosis
- Faith and Modernity
- Faith after "The Cognitive Turn"
- Salvation
- The Gifts of Doubt
- A Beautiful Life
- Is Santa Claus Real?
- The Feeling of Knowing
- Practicing Christianity
- In Praise of Doubt
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- Pragmatic Belief
- N-Order Complaint and Need for Cognition
The Theology of Humor
Game Theory and the Kingdom of God
Holiday Musings
- A Christmas Carol as Resistance Literature: Part 1
- A Christmas Carol as Resistance Literature: Part 2
- It's Still Christmas
- Easter Shouldn't Be Good News
- The Deeper Magic: A Good Friday Meditation
- Palm Sunday with the Orthodox
- Growing Up Catholic: A Lenten Meditation
- The Liturgical Year for Dummies
- "Watching Their Flocks at Night": An Advent Meditation
- Pentecost and Babel
- Epiphany
- Ambivalence about Lent
- On Easter and Astronomy
- Christmas & TV, Part 1: The Grinch
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- Sex Sandals and Advent
- Freud and Valentine's Day
- Existentialism and Halloween
- Halloween Redux: Talking with the Dead
The Offbeat
- Jesus Would Be a Hufflepuff
- The Moral Example of Captain Jack Sparrow
- Weddings Real, Imagined and Yet to Come
- Michelangelo and Neuroanatomy
- Believing in Bigfoot
- The Kingdom of God as Improv and Flash Mob
- 2012 and the End of the World
- Chocolate Jesus
- The Polar Express and the Uncanny Valley
- Why the Anti-Christ Is an Idiot
- On Harry Potter and Vampire Movies

I absolutely loved this post! Thanks for sharing it!
I've made one of my own purposes in my life to strive to be "a good person," so many times, I find myself trying to focus more and more on the four "moral emotions" you pointed out.
Most of the time I've found that my favorite movies are movies that inspire and drive me to be a better person. And I typically find with these films that I am lured into the role of the main characters and I find myself empatizing with them. By the end of the film I find myself wanting to love even more than I already do and being thankful for what I have and wanting to help others (that's probably a REALLY girly reaction to movies...HA!)
It's movies like Patch Adams, Life as a House, Million Dollar Baby, Crash, Remember the Titans, and others that give me this feeling. They make me want to love more and to truly appreciate people and relationships, no matter if people are rich or poor, black or white, heterosexual or homosexual, etc.
I can only imagine how powerful the National Civil Rights Museum tour was for you! Those sort of experiences truly can go a long way with an individual who is open to experiencing a small glimpse of life in someone elses shoes.
Thanks again for sharing!
LOVELY THOUGHTS - THANKS FOR SHARING
I remember watching Big Fish, that was a good movie :)
I was looking on the internet to further prove to my friend (Alexx) that she is a VERY good person, and I think you've just help me do that.
Thank you :)
Thank you for such a wonderfully thought out and written piece!
At times I struggle with mistakes or tough judgement calls that I've made in my life and sometimes they circle back to the essence of what my character really is...this essay has brought me to a clearer understanding and perspective.
I'm grateful!
I went to this web site to find some answers. I found something called anti personality disorders. I lost my father back in 1992. He was a great father. He believed in me. Stood by me. When no one else did. My mother is very controlling. She never believes in anything I say. She has always been verbally abusive. I married a man that is just like her.
We had a daughter who i love very much. She was verbally abused by him as well. He Always preached on how to do everything. A Mr. know it all, with everyone. Through the years i gave my daughter positiveness to un do the damages he created. I believed in her the way my mother never did for me. She never saw what he was doing to her until her friends brought it to her attention, Today my daughter is very cold in side. She treats me with no respect. As he always did. I cry over how little she loves me and yet she still sees her dad. She will go months at a time not talking to me for what ever reason. This hurts. I feel I was a good wife and a great mother. My family isn't there for me at all. I'm alone and very confused. I have tryed everything. I don't know how to help myself with this pain. Can someone give me some advice.
Susie, I know this is 2 years too late, but this broke my heart. The only advice I can give, should you ever see this, is to find a church that accepts you and loves you where you're at. They are out there...